He set the bar high on what it means to be a great man, Father, Grandfather, husband, partner, in-law, and friend. He was all that and more. His example had a profound impact on the 4 children he raised and all of their children that followed. I am so grateful for the years we had together and the bond that grew over time. He was always extremely generous and loving. He was always willing to listen, offer advice or support, and what ever else was needed. He lived for 84 years and 8 months. Most of which was spent living a happy and healthy exsistance. He enjoyed 24 years of retirement, and never regretted a minute of it. He had a large family who respected and loved him dearly. Throughout his life, he maintained a close relationship with all of his family members, in spite of the fact that distance devided us at times. He was the glue that bonded us together as a family. His illness brought about some positive circumstances, as it caused us to gather and reconnect as a loving close family once again. Lets not forget or lose that. The “family chat” initiated by Pat, following Dads diagnosis was brilliant. It was the beginning of a very difficult road for each of us. It connected all of us again, kept us informed and involved, and included those of us who live far away. I know I speak for everyone when I say: we appreciate and thank you, Pat. His illness was quick and his suffering was short. I choose to focus on the positives that occurred as a result of Dad’s life and even his illness. I think he would have wanted it that way. His funeral was thoughtfully planned, very moving, and meaningful. I love the fact that it was kept to a small, intimate gathering of only those who loved and knew him well. I am sure he would have approved. He will be forever missed, but his influences on each of our lives lives on!
