My Pop lived 106 beautiful years and in all that time, he loved deeply and lived fully.
He loved my Grandma Gayle with his whole heart. He was an amazing father to her, a devoted grandpa to my mom, Lisa, and the very best Pop I could have ever asked for. Generations of our family were shaped by his kindness, his quiet strength, and that unforgettable smile.
Growing up, our trips from Missouri to visit our California family meant everything to us. Those visits felt like stepping into a place filled with warmth, stories, and love. His home in Castro Valley was magical to me the shag carpets, the tiny trinkets, the photos of Bam and Pop, and the cellar stocked with his homemade jams made from fruit he grew himself. Everything about his home felt like him steady, comforting, and full of care.
One of my favorite memories is from when I was a teenager. We were at Aunt Karen’s house, all the generations gathered around the patio table. I walked in complaining about my terrible haircut, as dramatic teenagers do. Pop gave me a big hug and said, “Well, it looks pretty normal to me.” Just like that, I felt better. If a man who had lived through nearly a century, who had seen the world change in unimaginable ways, thought I looked just fine, then I was just fine.
I loved asking him about his childhood and the life he had lived. When the subject of war came up, he was quiet unless you caught him in the right mood. There was so much history in him, so much strength, and yet he carried it all with humility.
To live 106 years is extraordinary. But what made Pop truly special wasn’t just the length of his life, it was the love he gave during it. He made each of us feel safe, seen, and important.
We miss you deeply, Pop. Thank you for your stories, your hugs, your jams, your smile, and the legacy of love you leave behind. You were a good man and we are better because of you.