Delfin Espino Mateo's Obituary
Delfin Mateo passed away peacefully on November 26, 2024, in Burlingame, CA, surrounded by his loving family. Born on November 1, 1956, in Angeles City, Pampanga, Philippines, Delfin was the third of twelve siblings born to Agripina and Jose Mateo. He was affectionately called “Ontok” by his parents and “Piding” by his family. Delfin’s warmth, humor, and love for his family left a lasting impression on all who knew him.
Delfin graduated from St. Joseph’s Academy in Mexico, Pampanga, in 1974 and continued his education by earning a degree in Air Conditioning and Refrigeration. He also studied to become a Secretary.
In search of better opportunities, Delfin worked abroad, beginning in Saudi Arabia in 1978, before moving to Kuwait in 1986. There, he worked as a housekeeper at the SAS Hotel until 1989. Delfin was also known as “Michael,” a nickname he earned for his impressive Michael Jackson dance moves. He performed once at the SAS, won the grand prize for his dancing, and became a regular performer. His Michael Jackson performances were always a highlight, and he frequently served as the opening act for many events, entertaining guests with his unique talent.
In September 1986, Delfin met Guillerma, the love of his life. The two were married on April 8, 1987, beginning a journey filled with love, faith, and family. They were blessed with three children: Mark John, Jennifer, and Jefferson. Delfin worked in Japan as a demolisher in 1990 before returning to the Philippines in 1992, where he continued to support his family by selling rice in the public market.
In June 2001, Delfin moved to the United States to work and provide for his family. He and Guillerma were married again, this time in the Philippines, on May 4, 2002. In May 2011, their family joined him in the U.S., where they began a new chapter of their lives together, filled with joy and love.
Delfin was a devoted and loving husband, a dedicated father, a proud grandfather, and a supportive brother. He worked tirelessly to support his family, always putting their needs above his own. He was a dedicated provider, a selfless man, and a loving soul whose legacy of love, commitment, and sacrifice will live on forever through his family and be passed down to future generations. As a grandfather, he cherished every moment spent with his grandchildren, always spoiling them with love, joy, and affection.
His faith was the foundation of his life. Delfin was a God-fearing man who shared God’s word, often posting prayers and Bible verses on Facebook and messaging friends to inspire them. He kept God at the center of his life and family, guiding his actions and decisions. Delfin trusted in God’s plan and lived with faith. He always watched over his family, lifting them in prayer and trusting in God’s protection and grace.
His kindness and strong faith were shown in everything he did, always striving to help and encourage those around him. His deep faith gave him strength during challenges and guided him to be kind, generous, and compassionate. Delfin was a generous man, always helping people back home in the Philippines. His kindness left a lasting impact on many, showing his love for others and his desire to help.
Delfin is deeply missed and lovingly remembered by his beloved wife, Guillerma; his children, Mark John, Jennifer, and Jefferson; his in-laws, Mike and Bianca; his siblings, Adel, Virginio, Terry, William, Sheila, Jun, and Alvin; and his cherished grandchildren: Bea, Josh, Sophia, Mila, Mark Jr., Zeke, Miah, Micah, and Myles. He is also fondly remembered by many nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends whose lives he touched with his kindness and humor.
His memory will forever live in the hearts of his family and friends, inspiring them to live with faith, kindness, and devotion. His legacy will continue to live on, guiding and inspiring all who knew him. May his soul rest in peace, eternally in the loving arms of God, where he will find comfort and everlasting peace.
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