Brenda Lue Frasier's Obituary
Brenda Lue Frasier, 76, transitioned from this life to Heaven September 21, 2021, with her family by her side in Stanford, California.
She was born June 26, 1945, to George and Lucille Benton in Paragould, Arkansas where she was raised with 7 siblings: Frances, Mary Mae, Kenneth, Donald, Elizabeth, Helen, and her favorite baby brother, Jimmie.
To many Brenda was known by the southern term “Big Mamma” or “Miss B”. She always looked after and cared for everyone around. She was most known for her love of cooking. She was given to hospitality and loved to entertain a home full of guests.
Mrs. Frasier is survived by her loving husband of 34 years, James Ned Frasier, the eleven children they share and their spouses: George (Donna), Loren (Brenda), Richard (Gina), Dave (Crystal), Monica, Robert Anthony, Charlene, Emanuel, Jacy, Tonia, Michelle, and Jennifer; 41 grandchildren: Julie, CJ, Matthew (Chantel), Crystal (Mike), Christopher, Samuel, Derek (Kendell), Carlos, Natasha (Jimmy), Jada, Josiah, Timothy, Frederick, Zachary, Linda, Michael, Loren, Ashley, Jennifer (Preston), Matthew, Jessica (Terry), Richard, Christinia (Bryan), Steven (Cherokee), Ashley, JC, Mark, Kenny, Valerie, Kyle (Lorelei), Adriana, Mariah, Amihra, Robert Anthony, DeAngelo, Charnel, Eric, E’lise, Aliyah, Manuela, Mercedes, Ernestine; a host of great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews; her favorite cousin, Linda Watts; her precious Sister-in-law, Miok Benton; and all of her Greater Life Church Family.
She was preceded in death by her parents, all seven siblings, and her first husband, Loren Ray.
In lieu of flowers we are asking donations be sent to Brenda Frasier Memorial Fund
Memorial Service:
Going Home Service 28th, September 2021 @ 6pm,
Greater Life Church, 849 N San Mateo Dr, San Mateo, CA
Graveside Service/Burial 29th, September 2021 @ 1:30 pm
Chapel of the Chimes, 32992 Mission Blvd, Hayward, CA
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