My Dear Brother Arvind, I know you are resting in PEACE, and are dispersing your contagious smiles, your positive energy and your words of motivation to your new family in HEAVEN. While GOD has welcomed you with open arms in your new home, we here are missing you and are still trying to come to terms with this irrecoverable LOSS. I have gone through all emotions of grief starting with the anger of unfairly losing my brother – but I realize now that it is GOD’s decision, he needed someone like you in heaven to maintain the heavenly atmosphere. You are at peace now, that is the only consolation I have that explains this – there is no other answer.No longer do I receive text messages or phone calls from you, I do not have to give a quick response to you that all is OK/I am fine will call you back and I do not hear your voice – “just checking on you, no rush”. I did not realize ever that just this alone would drive a million tears down my cheeks one day.You have been a loving and caring brother, a loving father, a loving uncle, a genuine caring friend to many, a very caring and respecting husband and very respectful to the women you interacted with – and I say all this not just because you are my brother, but because I have seen your interaction with others and I am hearing all this about you.I have so many fond memories of all the times we spent together growing up in the same home as kids and beyond. While I can try to get through each day with those memories, I struggle to not have you part of my life any more. One thing that I appreciate most about you was that you would constantly remind me of what you appreciated in life and were thankful for – now, your those very words fill my heart that your life may have been short but you fulfilled your purpose for everyone around you.You kept up with your routine and positive energy even through the difficult times – you believed in the importance of things that matter in life and understood what really brings happiness and joy in life, for that I am so proud of you dear brother. That made me feel at times you were my elder brother.You continue to inspire me everyday and look at the bigger picture of life. I love you and miss you so much.